So in other words,gets me off is okay? This is way too much.
This is jsut inane. Sex is about passion, not orgasms. Call me a romantic, but I think sex is better off the old fashioned way.
Fetishes are okay. Sexual devaitions aren't. People weren't meant to be hit with objects, or pooed on, or put through simulated rape fantasies, to orgasm. People were meant to be turned on by diferent nationalities, certain articles of clothing, even porn.
But this stuff, it's just wrong!
BTW, some of these extreme fetishes are due to early childhood trauma. It's calls for psychological help, not indulgence.
But think about this - how weird is it to get turned on by... silk stockings or leather gloves? It's pretty weird. They are articles of clothing.
Any fetish is a deviation from the norm. Sexual deviants, however, let these fetishes - whatever they may be - consume them.
Besides, to get technical, sex is about reproduction. It feels good so we reproduce.
Sex sans orgasms? You must have a pretty sad sex life.
Also, those people who should get psychological help because of their extreme fetishes? Would these fetishes be something like, tying a woman up, with a rope, her left hand tied to her right ankle, her left ankle tied to the best post, and her right arm tied to her side, while wearing white udnerwear? Because that's a very specific fetish, and most probably comes from a trauma in early life.
I speak for myself, having had no trauma in life that things like bondage, BDSM, even 3somes do not neccessaarily have to come from severe childhood traumas. We're all hardwired differently. Hell, you might just not have found your kink yet.