Genejoke
Don't you remember being a horny teenager? When dipping your stick is the most important think ever EVER EVER!!!!!

But does the availability of sex outweigh the suffocating clingyness of the partner who's supplying it? And for how long?

That was Kyupol's thing- clingyness is great because it means lots of sex.

Guess it depends on how desperate you are.

ozoneocean

Genejoke
Don't you remember being a horny teenager? When dipping your stick is the most important think ever EVER EVER!!!!!

But does the availability of sex outweigh the suffocating clingyness of the partner who's supplying it? And for how long?

That was Kyupol's thing- clingyness is great because it means lots of sex.

Not always, it can also mean "I just want to snuggle" but that usually happens after she's wrapped you around her finger with the frequent sex.

bravo1102

ozoneocean

Genejoke
Don't you remember being a horny teenager? When dipping your stick is the most important think ever EVER EVER!!!!!

But does the availability of sex outweigh the suffocating clingyness of the partner who's supplying it? And for how long?

That was Kyupol's thing- clingyness is great because it means lots of sex.

Not always, it can also mean "I just want to snuggle" but that usually happens after she's wrapped you around her finger with the frequent sex.

Um, I think we're talking about different things here...

A clingy female is an ageless condition. How the male responds is different depending on his age but she remains constant.

The human condition is universal.

Interesting how a discussion on internet dating has (d)evolved into observations about stick dipping & clingy-ness.

you guys are hilarious, really.

And who says it's females who are clingy?? I once dated this guy who was fucking CLINGY as hell.

and man, it annoyed the hell out of me.

Clingness is NOT a good thing... it's usually a sign of insecurity. The insecurity that they might not be good enough for anybody, or that the person they want to be with might leave them, etc. or even the fear that if they don't spend enough time talking or hanging out with their loved one, their loved one might lose interest in them and just eventually abandon them.

So they end up overdoing a lot of things.

clingy females and males may be desperate enough for sex so I suppose for certain people this might be a good thing if they're only looking for a good time and want to exploit that.

But for those who want a more serious relationship... well, this isn't exactly a good trait to have in an relationship... it basically means that the other person isn't secure in the relationship, much less that they trust you.

and serious relationships are supposed to be all about trust and love.

http://hubpages.com/hub/5-Signs-That-Youre-Clingy

Aurora Moon
And who says it's females who are clingy?? I once dated this guy who was fucking CLINGY as hell.

We did address that- that the gender doesn't matter.

Aurora Moon
Clingness is NOT a good thing... it's usually a sign of insecurity. The insecurity that they might not be good enough for anybody, or that the person they want to be with might leave them, etc. or even the fear that if they don't spend enough time talking or hanging out with their loved one, their loved one might lose interest in them and just eventually abandon them.

So they end up overdoing a lot of things.

Very true.

Indeed I even did it once, after a string of relationships that ended badly and a prolonged period being single I met a beautiful girl who was basically my dream woman.
Not just looks but we connected in everyway, it was brilliant, except after the run of being cheated on and the fact she was drop dead gorgeous, intelligent and funny well I had a couple of problems. I had trust issues and I honestly felt I wasn't good enough for her, I became jealous and clingy and I cringe at just thinking about what an idiot I was at the time.

Needless to say it ended badly and it took me a while to get over it, fortunately it gave me the kick up the arse I needed to sort myself out. It's a shame more people don't learn from their mistakes.

I was relationship-damagingly clingy when I was 17/18. Luckily my husband was patient. I grew out of it.