So you want Animal Crossing + World of Warcraft? IMO that's very doable, and the only reason we don't have such games yet is because action game designers and family game designers are 2 different species, and they don't talk to each other.
As for faery clothing... c'mon, you're a faery! You make magic clothes! Of course they fit everybody!
LOL, yeah I guess that's what I pretty much want for my dream MMORPG. and I think maybe we need to force those 2 species of game designers to at least talk to each other. Maybe if we get lucky, we can even get them to mentally mate with each other and have them produce a kickass game~!